What’s your life going to be a year from now?
How about, try getting a clearer picture of your life as you ideally would want it to be. Try to imagine what your life would be like in a year, if EVERYTHING were to work out wonderfully. Get into the details of what your ideal life would be. Imagine, every day for a year, you’ve made the most wonderful, positive strides in every area of your life. For example, it’s Sunday afternoon, one year from today. Everyday, for the last year, everything has worked out perfectly for you. You are now one year ‘down the road’ and able to see your what your life would be like, if EVERYTHING has worked out wonderfully.
What are you doing? Where are you? What are your circumstances? How do you feel about yourself? What did you do this morning or afternoon? What are you planning for this evening? And, very importantly, what are you looking forward to tomorrow, Monday morning? What is your schedule like for the upcoming week? What other plans are you making?
Get a vivid, clear, full-of-wonderful-feelings, images, even smells, sounds and tactile experiences of the life you really want to be living. Imagine what your IDEAL life would be like.
Affirm this to be true. Accept it, and start being thankful for it, even now before you can see how it could possibly come to be. (Exercise FAITH.)
Plan Backwards
Now, instead of planning forwards, plan backwards. In other words, take the END you want to experience – your IDEAL LIFE, one year from today – and imagine backwards. Ask yourself, in order for me to have this Ideal Life, what MUST have occurred in the last year?
For example, if you wanted to give birth to a child, you probably must have gotten pregnant more than nine months ago, right? And if you want to be successful selling photographs, then you must have done __________ . (You‘ll want to find out what this takes. Would it have taken meeting someone who already knew how to do this, and was willing to show you? Would it take you having a different attitude about the worth of what you do? Would it take you spending time to get business sense, or hiring an agent to handle this end?) Are you living in a beautiful home of your own? Then again, ask yourself what must have occurred in the last year for this to be true? Did you win the lottery? Maybe not.
Maybe you got a large grant? Or, maybe you found or created a way to earn a very lucrative income from doing things you already LOVE doing? And if you’ve handled your income and finances successfully, you must have created a successful budget, savings and spending plan. If you’re in excellent health, you must have created a lifestyle that is conducive to this. If you’re in a successful relationship, you must have found successful ways to resolve your differences (because even the best of relationships are going to have some differences).
The point is, when it comes to having the IDEAL LIFE that we want, we must understand that this life is foreshadowed by certain events, personal habits and disciplines. In order to have the ideal life we want, we therefore need to incorporate these into our plans, even if we have no clue as to how we are going to make it all happen. (Note: Making it all happen is mostly up to the Universe. Our ‘job’ is to have the FAITH that will impel and allow the Universe to make it so, and to mold us into who we need to be.)
Insurance
No matter what we IDEALLY picture and desire for ourselves, we cannot possibly know everything in the Universe that bears some relationship to our life. In other words, we are not in a ‘See All, Know All’ position. Because of this, it is wise, when affirming whatever it is we want, to add, “This or something even better, for my highest good and the highest good of all concerned.” Doing this, we are not constraining the Universe. In essence, we are saying, “Universe, I know what I think would be best and most wonderful for me, but I also know that I don’t know everything. So, if there is something EVEN BETTER for me, go ahead and give me that.”
In other words, by dreaming and coming up with visions of an Ideal Life, we are telling the Universe we are open to more life, joy, love and happiness. And by adding the above ‘insurance phrase’ we are also telling the Universe that we trust it, and we are open to even greater possibilities than we can even imagine. (It helps us from so-called ‘shooting ourselves in the foot’.)
Intuition & Guidance
You – what you believe and therefore see as possible – who you are today, will naturally know less than the you of a week from today, and so on. So, even if you know what you want, say, a year from now, your knowledge of how this is to take place will change over time. By being open to intuition and guidance, you enable yourself to grow, sometimes by leaps and bounds,
Intuition and guidance happen in myriad ways. But certainly, intuition incorporates having faith, and listening to and for constructive ideas and opportunities. To me, intuition and guidance are conducive to inner peace, love and well being. They tend to take us beyond, or through, around or over our fears.
For example, I have a couple of friends into real estate. They both have their licenses, yet one is on the verge of quitting, and the other is making great forwards strives. One is constantly criticizing the field of real estate and telling me why he must fail at it, and the other, well,… most recently she told me how she just ‘happened’ to meet a very successful realtor who just happened to be looking for someone to train and run his office, someone who would be a partner to him.
What causes such happenstance? Is it luck or coincidence? What do you think?
cheers,
BobbyWan