Celine Dion with Charihsse Pempengco – TearSpiring!

If you haven’t seen this…. make sure you do…. Bring out
your tissues before watching this video… Delightful &
moving.

Celine Dion with Charihsse Pempengco

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Why a wedding ring should be put on the fourth finger ??

Really interesting thing
Why  a  wedding ring should be put on the fourth finger?
Pls follow the below step, really god made this miracle( this is from a Chinese excerpt)

Firstly, show your palm, centre finger bend and put together back to back
Secondly, the rest 4 fingers tips to tips
Games begin, follow the below arrangement, 5 fingers but only 1 pair can’t split

Try to open your thumb, the thumbs represent parents, it can be open cause all humans do go thru sickness and die.
Which is why our parents will leave us one day
Pls close up your thumb, then open your second finger, the fingers represent brothers and sisters,
they do have their own families which is why they will leave us too
Now close up your second finger, open up your little fingers, this represents your children.
Sooner or later they too will leave us for they have their own living to live
Nevertheless, close up your little finer, try to open your fourth finger which we put our wedding rings on,
you will be surprised to find that it cannot be open at all.  B
ecause it represent husband and wife, this whole life you will be attached to each other!!!!!

Real love will stick together forever and ever

Thumb represent parents
Second finger represents brothers & sisters
Centre finger represents own self
Fourth finger represents your partner
Last finger represents your children

cheers,

Bobby

When You thought I wasn’t looking, by a child

 A message every parent should read, because your children are

   watching you and doing as you do, not as you say…

 

 “When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw you hang my first

 painting on the refrigerator, and I immediately wanted to paint another one.

 

 When you thought I wasn’t looking I saw you feed a stray cat, and

 I learned that it was good to be kind to animals.

 

When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw you make my favorite

cake for me and I learned that little things can be the special things in life.

 

When you thought I wasn’t looking I heard you say a prayer, and I

knew there is a God I could always talk to and I learned to trust in God.

 

When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw you make a meal and take

 it to a friend who was sick, and learned that we all have to help take

care of each other.

 

When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw you give of your time  and

money  to  help people who had nothing and I learned that those who have

something should give to those who don’t.

 

When you thought I wasn’t looking, I felt you kiss me good night

and I felt loved and safe.

 

   When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw you take care of our house

and  everyone in it and I learned we have to take care of what we are given.

 
When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw how you handled your

responsibilities, even when you didn’t feel good and I learned that I would
have to be responsible when I grow up.

 

   When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw tears come from your eyes and

I learned that sometimes things hurt, but it’s all right to cry.

 

   When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw that you cared and I  wanted

to be everything that I could be.

 

   When you thought I wasn’t looking, I learned most of life’s lessons that

I need to know to be a good and productive person when I grow up.

 

   When you thought I wasn’t looking, I looked at you and wanted to say,
thanks for all the things I saw when you thought I wasn’t looking.’”

 

   Each of us, parent, grandparent, uncle, aunt or friend, influence

   the life of a child.

 

Have a nice day…I mean it:)

READ THIS VERY SLOWLY… IT’S PRETTY PROFOUND.
Too many people put off something that brings them joy just because they haven’t thought about it, don’t have it on their schedule, didn’t know it was coming or are too rigid to depart from their routine.

I got to thinking one day about all those women on the Titanic who passed up dessert at dinner that fateful night in an effort to cut back. From then on, I’ve tried to be a little more flexible.

How many women out there will eat at home because their husband didn’t suggest going out to dinner until after something had been thawed? Does the word refrigeration mean anything to you?

How often have your kids dropped in to talk and sat in silence while you watched ‘Jeopardy’ on television?

I cannot count the times I called my sister and said, “How about going to lunch in a half hour?” She would gasp and stammer, “I can’t. I have clothes on the line. My hair is dirty. I wish I had known yesterday, I had a late breakfast, It looks like rain.” And my personal favorite: “It’s Monday.” …She died a few years ago. We never did have lunch together.

Because Americans cram so much into their lives, we tend to schedule our headaches. We live on a sparse diet of promises we make to ourselves when all the conditions are perfect!

We’ll go back and visit the grandparents when we get Stevie toilet-trained.

We’ll entertain when we replace the living-room carpet.

We’ll go on a second honeymoon when we get two more kids out of college.

Life has a way of accelerating as we get older.

The days get shorter, and the list of promises to ourselves gets longer. One morning, we awaken, and all we have to show for our lives is a litany of “I’m going to”, “I plan on”, and “Someday, when things are settled down a bit.”

When anyone calls my ’seize the moment’ friend, she is open to adventure and available for trips She keeps an open mind on new ideas. Her enthusiasm for life is contagious.
You talk with her for five minutes, and you’re ready to trade your bad feet for a pair of Rollerblades and skip an elevator for a bungee cord.

My lips have not touched ice cream in 10 years. I love ice cream. It’s just that I might as well apply it directly to my stomach with a spatula and eliminate the digestive process. The other day, I stopped the car and bought a triple-decker.

If my car had hit an iceberg on the way home, I would have died happy.

Now…go on and have a nice day. Do something you WANT to……not something on your SHOULD DO list.

If you were going to die soon and had only one phone call you could make, who would you call and what would you say?
And why are you waiting?

Make sure you read this to the end; you will understand why I sent this to you.

Have you ever watched kids playing on a merry go round or listened to the rain lapping on the ground? Ever followed a butterfly’s erratic flight or gazed at the sun into the fading night? Do you run through each day on the fly? When you ask “How are you?” Do you hear the reply?

When the day is done, do you lie in your bed with the next hundred chores running through your head?

Ever told your child, “We’ll do it tomorrow.”

And in your haste, not see his sorrow?

Ever lost touch? Let a good friendship die?

Just call to say “Hi”?

When you worry and hurry through your day, it is like an unopened gift…Thrown away… Life is not a race. Take it slower. Hear the music before the song is over.

cheers,
Bobby Wan

A person’s True Character

A person’s true character is revealed by what he does when no one is watching.Some people complain because God put thorns on roses, while others praise Him for putting roses among thorns.

Although the tongue weighs very little, very few people are able to hold it.

Success in a marriage is more than finding the right person. It’s becoming the right person.

Falling down doesn’t make you a failure, but staying down does.

Don’t be afraid of pressure. Remember that pressure is what turns a lump of coal into a diamond.

Even a woodpecker owes his success to the fact that he uses his head.
The poorest of all men is not the man without a cent but the man without a dream.

The only preparation for tomorrow is the right use of today.

People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.

Temper is what gets most of us into trouble. Pride is what keeps us there.

cheers,
BobbyWan

With Love….

  Hatred paralyzes life;

 Love releases it.

 Hatred confuses life;

Love harmonizes it.

Hatred darkens life;

Love illumines it.

- Martin Luther King, Jr.

             With love

Put no demands on love, and love will bring you much.
Give love away, and it will be yours in greater and greater abundance.

With love, what was weak will grow strong.
With love, what was impossible becomes real.

Love can find the beauty and value in even the most desperate situation.
Love will bring hope where nothing else can.

Though love cannot be explained, it can never be denied.
Love has its own reality that transcends the most oppressive limitations.

Love elevates what it touches to a higher dimension.
When love is present, fears are calmed, wounds begin to heal, and joy is gloriously within reach.

Love, not because there is a reason, but because there is the possibility.
Love, and you will know what you cannot understand.

love,BobbyWan

Priorities In Life

  I believe our priorities in life are very important. They decide what we end up doing and getting in life.Our differences in priorities are what make us different. One of my highest priorities is being healthy. This has always been with me since childhood.

I never wanted to smoke because I knew it would make me less healthy. I never understood why any athlete would even consider smoking.

However, maybe they believed at the time it would make them cool or maybe help them attract members of the opposite sex. But, in my mind, those are very poor values. You are willing to risk your life and health for the good opinion of others.

So many people fall into this trap. When I see someone smoking, I know they have very different priorities than I do. I hate cigarettes. I also tend not to associate with people who smoke as far as possible. I want to be around people who are into clean living and people who don’t fall for pear pressure.

Another very important value I have is of being thin. This ties in with my health value. I bet you that my values are very different from someone who is overweight. I’m quite sure that if they had my values plus beliefs then they would be thin as well.

If I put on two or three extra kilos of fat, I would start getting worried.

I’d immediately form a plan to get rid of the fat. Luckily, I’ve only had to implement these plans a few times. But I never let these extra kilos get out of hand.

I think many people who are overweight may not take any action on their weight problems until they are 20 or more kilos overweight. Maybe they think it is natural to put on kilos as the years go on. Maybe they are just joining the crowd and being like almost everyone else these days.

I do feel that people have legitimate problems maintaining a healthy weight. For some it is easier than others. . I think that most people who get overweight also feel like they can’t control themselves.

We all have our problems in life. For some people it is a weight issue. For others it’s a self-esteem issue. So, I’m not putting people down who are overweight. We all have our problems. This is what we try to share our challenges and solutions with peoples around. It’s about helping you overcome your life issues and being the best you can be.

I am just amazed at what I see every day. I’d say more than 30% (est) of the people I see are overweight here. An interesting thing I found is that the people here are much ‘fatter’ than in our neighbouring countries.  We must have higher priorities when it comes to putting on extra weight.

A great exercise is to make a list of your values in life and then prioritize them. You may find that due to inertia you aren’t even following your own list of priorities or you may want to change the order of some of your values.

Here’s a sample list: (I’m not suggesting that this should be your values.)

1.      Financial Independence
2.      Family
3.      Happiness
4.      Freedom
5.      Health
6.      Friends

I see a little problem with this list of values. You may see some problems as well. If you rank financial independent higher than happiness, you’ll be willing to have a job or career you hate to make yourself a success.

Of course, for many people that wouldn’t be a success at all. Life is a journey and you should enjoy the ride as much as possible. This person might also work in a job where people smoke because he values  financial independence higher than his health.

Here is a possible different ordering of priorities. You may find problems with this order in your own life. Nevertheless, it just shows you how your values and how you prioritize them changes what you do in life.

1.      Happiness
2.      Health
3.      Freedom
4.      Financial Independence
5.      Family
6.      Friends

People who derive lots of happiness from their families and friends might order this list quite differently. Make your own list of up to 10 values or more if you like. Then order them and play around with them. Are you actually living within your own value system or have you slipped?

Keep in mind that you shouldn’t have to struggle to live within your values. They are who you are. But you may want to change some of your values if your current values aren’t serving you.

cheers,
BobbyWan

Our Valuable Children

One proud father said to his little boy, “I’ve got news for you, my big boy. God has sent you a beautiful baby brother.”"Great!” yelped the little boy. “Where’s Mom? I can’t wait to tell her!”

His sister, however, wasn’t nearly as excited about the arrival.

After a few days her father asked, “Aren’t you happy about having a new baby brother?”

“Not really,” she admitted. “I wanted a little sister so we could play girl games when she got bigger. And we can’t give him back.

We’ve used him for five days.”

She may likely grow to cherish her little brother. For children the world over should be cherished. They are, and always have been, our most valuable resource.

Peter De Vries has said, “The value of marriage is not that adults produce children, but that children produce adults.” It’s today’s children who will be tomorrow’s adults. We must treat them with the utmost care; we must responsibly educate and train our young people; we must, above all, show them the value of love for all people.

An unknown author put it succinctly: “A child is a person who is going to carry on what you have started. He or she is going to sit where you are sitting and attend to those things which you think are important. You may adopt all the policies you please, but how they will be carried out depends on our young people.

They will assume control of your duties, states and nation. They are going to move in and take over your churches, schools, universities and corporations. All your books will be judged, praised or condemned by them. The fate of humanity is in their hands. So it might be well to pay young people attention.”

Remember, the best thing to spend on your children is time.

Today:)